tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-71008942024-03-23T14:18:15.657-04:00Memories, Melodies, Fragrance!"all the world's a stage" ... i am one of the players ... this is my act ...Geetali Sharmahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160038878343445664noreply@blogger.comBlogger262125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100894.post-42948714790005170102020-04-27T23:56:00.000-04:002020-04-27T23:56:17.145-04:00Adventures in Laundrying<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I relocated recently, and for the first time in my life I am living at a place that does not have laundry machines in the unit or even in the building. For past several years, I've had and enjoyed the luxury of having easy and free-to-me access to machines.<br />
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Today, adventures in laundrying began as I went to a landromat for the first time in my whole entire life and spent approximately $20 on doing laundry! <i>Washing lots of blankets and rugs etc.</i> The experience, I must say, was quite pleasant. <i>Minus the expensiveness of it. </i><br />
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I specifically appreciated the speed at which this laundormat's commercial machines washed and dried everything thrown at it. Drying blankets at my last place would easily take 1-1.5 hours, and would take several loads due to the smaller size of the machine. At this landromat, we could shove most of our blankets in a single large machine. Washing took 20 minutes. Drying took 20 as well.<br />
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For someone like me who doesn't like <i>waiting </i>-- waiting in lines, waiting in traffic, waiting for someone, waiting for laundry to get done at a public place -- this was a <b>dream come true</b>. In and out in less than 1 hour!<br />
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Oh! What a time to be alive!</div>
Geetali Sharmahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160038878343445664noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100894.post-67564398371046255222014-11-12T00:01:00.000-05:002014-11-12T00:01:00.189-05:00Happy Birthday, Nani<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Every year on this day I would wish her happy birthday. No phone call today. No live voice streaming. Just memories. <i>Bas</i><i> </i><i>yaadein</i><i> </i><i>reh</i><i> </i><i>jaati</i><i> hain.</i></div>
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I wonder if babies pop out crying because they are mourning the loss of their past life.</div>
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I wonder where my nani is now.</div>
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I miss her.</div>
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I hope she's happy and worry-free.</div>
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I hope we meet again...</div>
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...and fall in love all over again :)</div>
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PS: My nani passed away less than 2 months ago. I blogged about it <a href="http://livingvipassana.com/2014/09/25/on-my-nanis-passing/" target="_blank">here</a>, <a href="http://livingvipassana.com/2014/10/09/on-grief/" target="_blank">here</a>, and <a href="http://livingvipassana.com/2014/10/23/on-regret-resolution/" target="_blank">here</a>.</div>
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Geetali Sharmahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160038878343445664noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100894.post-83628274450044020432014-09-02T19:20:00.001-04:002014-09-02T19:24:10.774-04:00Reading Eat, Pray, Love<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I've always described myself as a seasonal reader. I read books back-to-back, and then go through periods of absolutely no book reading unless it's "required". I haven't had required reading in while and so, the past several years, I read zero books... probably also because television shows are movies are so easily accessible now. I decided to put an end to this last year.<br />
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Book that broke the fast was <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Secret-Life-Bees-Monk-Kidd/dp/0142001740">The Secret Life of Bees</a>; took me about 6 months to finish it. I read a total of 3 books in 2013.<br />
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For 2014, my goals is 10 books. Not ambitious by itself, however, decent in comparison to last year, in my opinion. I've mostly been focusing on non-fiction books, motivational or self-help type. I've read 8 books this year so far.<br />
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Moving onto a lighter read now - <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Eat-Pray-Love-Everything-Indonesia/dp/0143038419">Eat, Pray, Love</a> by Elizabeth Gilbert. A #1 New York Times Bestseller, but has its share of bad reviews. Not an issue. Because... I prefer to form my own opinion, and because... I often end up finding something good in everything.<br />
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So far, I like the short chapters. I'm only 28 pages and 9 chapters in.<br />
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Geetali Sharmahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160038878343445664noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100894.post-38210576011962753482014-06-23T02:13:00.001-04:002014-06-23T02:13:19.323-04:00Life is good. <div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I moved into my new place on June 21st, the first day of summer. I like the symbolism of that! I am a romantic at heart and symbols are romantic to me :-)<br />
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I like my house-mates. We were friends before house-mates and this new relationship is a nice shift of energy... moving more into the territory of familiality, which I like! Love! Adore! Desire!<br />
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I also have a couple of job interviews this week and they both look promising. I am not nervous, but excited and confident. There is not one thing about me that I feel the need to hide, tweak, or fake. I am who I am and if I say, "I am pretty decent" I would be underplaying it.<br />
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I am the same person on the surface as I am underneath the surface. The thoughts that I hear in my head are the same that I speak to others. There are no masks, there are no skeletons. Honesty, purity, kindness, love and other such wondernessess live and breed in me.<br />
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I am conscious, not passive. I choose, not react. When shit happens, my life doesn't end there, it continues to breath and prosper. It finds fun and adventure in highs <i>and</i> lows. Lows aren't thought of as lows anymore by this new mind that I now possesses, instead they're highs. They're opporunities, they're windows into new doors.<br />
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Life is good, to put it simply.</div>
Geetali Sharmahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160038878343445664noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100894.post-36952983715364783642014-06-17T20:44:00.000-04:002014-06-18T20:45:18.204-04:00<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Change comes when comfort settles. Today, i.e. four days before I move out to be on my own, I feel a little extra at home at home. The finale is nearing and with that nostalgia brews.<br />
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Geetali Sharmahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160038878343445664noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100894.post-36831967218818355832014-06-16T23:06:00.000-04:002014-06-17T01:07:05.617-04:00Shock Therapy<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I gave a one-month notice at my current job today. It lit a fire behind my butt. Meaning, I do not have another job lined up yet, yet I gave a notice.<br />
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This action <i>is</i> something I needed to get things moving. I <i>have</i> been wanting to move on for a while, am in the middle of interviewing with one place, but haven't applied to any other desirable jobs in all the past weeks that I've fantasized about moving on. My comfortable association with my current place of work was keeping me from going out after the next big thing. Fire behind my butt is exactly what I needed. This shift in energy is exactly what I needed.<br />
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I know it'll all work out fine. There's no worry in the air. Only inspiration and motivation. And just the right amount of shock therapy to put perspective on the commodity of time, allowing fine tuning the management of it.<br />
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What are you doing differently today?</div>
Geetali Sharmahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160038878343445664noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100894.post-21988366076276914332014-06-09T02:39:00.001-04:002014-06-09T02:39:24.536-04:00Completion<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I want to make a habit of finishing things. And finishing them quickly! Say, biweekly vs. stretching over a few months. This means fewer things happening simultaneously. For example, reading 1-2 books at a time instead of 5! Ideally, just one.<br />
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Between April and May I finished reading 3 or 4 books and an introductory HTML/CSS course on www.codecademy.com Reading that last page, checking off that last question, is such a good feeling. It fills me up with positivity and confidence. I want to feel more of this type of energy.<br />
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This applies to daily things, too. Such as completing an exercise routine... or something as simple and as short as making the bed.<br />
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Feeling of Completion. That's what I'm deliberately striving for starting now until it becomes an effortless habit. </div>
Geetali Sharmahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160038878343445664noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100894.post-66284602241275245752014-05-31T06:08:00.000-04:002014-05-31T06:08:11.901-04:00Self Assessment<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Things I want to do in this lifetime:<br />
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<li>donate a minimum of $100,000 to charity (because that's how big I can think right now... I wish to stretch myself to add way more zeroes to the end of that)</li>
<li>write, write, write ... and publish a book that people can hold in their hands and lend to their friends to read</li>
<li>become accutely aware of my subconcious reactions and limitations and override them deliberately and intentionally </li>
<li>become an AWESOME graphic and web designer/developer</li>
<li>have real and meaningful relationships with people who choose to live consciously</li>
<li>choose curiosity every single day</li>
<li>be sexy in body, mind, and spirit</li>
<li>be the person I wish everyone chooses to be : kind, compassionate, loving, caring</li>
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How I'm doing so far:</div>
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<li>So far I've donated ten and twenty dollars here and there, plus hundreds of volunteer hours. All together should be somewhere close to $10,000-$15,000 range. Which means, I should be aiming wayy higher than $100k :)</li>
<li>This blog was started in 2004. So much writing has already been done. A writing style <i>has</i> been developed. Now, pulling some of this together, and continuing a writing habit.</li>
<li>Meditation, meditation, meditation. Every couple of months re-assessing how I'm doing with my daily practice. Recently, recommitted to 2 hours for daily practice.</li>
<li>Some resistance to this right now. My accountability group (Failure Club) is very motivating!</li>
<li>Oh god, I have<i> </i>many of these people in my life already. And I feel rather blessed. There's always room for more goodness. </li>
<li>I have been making this a daily practice at work since the past two months. I notice now that it's become a habit. I engage with people automatically, without effort now. Good stuff!</li>
<li>This is a work in progress.</li>
<li>Doing it. More can be done every day, though.</li>
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Geetali Sharmahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160038878343445664noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100894.post-16239311829757928742014-05-16T23:41:00.001-04:002014-05-16T23:41:16.467-04:00Writing & Me<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
(composed on April 4, 2013)<br />
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During the 1998-99 school year, as a 6th grader in New Delhi, India, I was introduced to a form of creative-writing that instantly wooed me! It brought me to doors that I hadn't imagined existed. My love for writing is solidly grounded in that one grade-level, that one course, and that one single concept -- writing autobiographies of animate and inanimate objects.<br />
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Writing these autobiographies was like "reading" a mystery novel. I did not know what my pen would form next, what my mind would fathom. With the thrill to uncover the story, I would write quickly, bumping up my heartrate with excitement, allowing my arm to start hurting without fail each time. I would write more than the requirement and let my imagination do somersaults. <br />
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Aforementioned writing method introduced me to the vastness of my own mind and the creativity that resides within it. The essays were mere bait, and the feelings of falling in love with this method, though true, were also illusionary. I was actually discovering and falling in love with myself!<br />
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My relationship with writing, outside of academics [and sometimes even within it], has had the underlying theme of self-discovery. My private journals, online blogs and forum participation, personal emails and texts, handwritten letters and love notes, public comments and tweets, they all continue to evolve overtime. As do I.<br />
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Based on the need of the moment, I write to empty and quiten the mind, and I also write to fill it up with ideas, possibilities, direction; I write for clarity and to unjumble, and I also write to question and stir things up. I continue to make discoveries as my pen draws from the fathoms of my mind, and I continue to fall in love with writing, with words, with discovery, and with self!<br />
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Geetali Sharmahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160038878343445664noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100894.post-6070499117574905052014-05-14T00:53:00.000-04:002014-05-14T00:53:08.162-04:00Product of Two Cultures<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Being a product of two culture is more than just <i>confusing</i> and <i>challenging</i>. Especially when these two cultures don't understand each other and critically judge each other.<br />
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<i>Who am I in the midst of this? </i><br />
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Unfortunately for now, it often feels like a battle. No matter what choice I make, I end up having to explain myself to either of the cultures; because as one choice may be an inherent way of being in one culture, it appears absolutely outrageous to the other.<br />
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At the end of the day, for me, it comes down to knowing that I know myself best and I know why I am making the choices that I am making.<br />
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On the positive side, it doesn't always hurt to have been exposed to two drastically opposing schools of thought. Just makes life that much more full of options and opportunities :)</div>
Geetali Sharmahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160038878343445664noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100894.post-89697423932694241552014-04-14T20:58:00.002-04:002014-04-14T20:58:23.839-04:00On "Morning Pages"<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Hi. I'm here. Writing.<br />
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Ya know, I journal privately still. Especially <i><a href="http://juliacameronlive.com/basic-tools/morning-pages/">morning pages</a></i>. They allow me to start my day afresh, with clarity and focus, with understanding of and insight into what positivity and/or negativity is surfacing in my mind. This helps increase my everyday levels of joy & happiness, resulting in beaming smiles; and lower my everyday levels of stress & anxiety, and feelings of overwhelmingness. Sometimes I write for 20 minutes, sometime for over an hour. And almost always end with a sigh of relief, as if releasing a big load.<br />
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March 22nd was the last time I wrote morning pages. Sat a silent meditation course that started only a few days after the 22nd and since then have been in a habit of not writing. I feel the pressure inside :) ...my thoughts, feelings, ideas, desires, complaints, amends, resolves, reflections, plans, etc. want to come bursting forward. I don't even know what all is in me right now. It won't come forward until I sit and start typing.<br />
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I'll let this post end here. Getting back into the habit of blogging will take building, too. Be this an abrupt ending and/or post or not, I wrote and published. That's what matters :)</div>
Geetali Sharmahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160038878343445664noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100894.post-45542918036776335552014-03-23T04:11:00.000-04:002014-03-23T04:11:04.114-04:00An Apology to Self.<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I haven't published any blogs in a very long time. Stating the obvious here :)<br />
I thought I knew why, but today I am unsure. I read a few posts ... some from years ago and some recent. It is refreshing to re-connect to emotions and experiences from the past. Why had I stopped from giving this gift to my future self?<br />
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Somehow, somewhere along the way I got this notion in my head that no one wants to read what I'm writing. Or that I'm not cool enough. Even that things are changing way too quickly to stay current. But today, right now, I am seeing those "reasons" as limitations that I put on myself.<br />
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This is not for anyone else. If someone else enjoys it, that's a bonus! First and foremost, this is for myself. I enjoy writing, reflecting, processing, and documenting my life.<br />
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Let this blogpost be an apology to myself. An apology to the little wonder in me who thrives on experience, reflection, and sharing. <33 p=""></33></div>
Geetali Sharmahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160038878343445664noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100894.post-87703889079599607602013-05-20T15:33:00.002-04:002013-05-20T15:33:37.989-04:00Pong game<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Work in progress...<br />
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http://www.codeskulptor.org/#user13_8LXiPLJ2dn_8.py<br />
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Geetali Sharmahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160038878343445664noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100894.post-15213027398149690352012-09-03T00:41:00.001-04:002012-09-03T00:41:33.912-04:00I see Light.<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Life is a series of transitions.<br />
One after another.<br />
Until, Cessation. Freedom. Liberation.<br />
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When I become ready, a lesson strategically presents itself. Accepting it is up to me. Acceptance does not guarantee success. However, success does guarantee the manifestation of another lesson. And yet another lesson after that... and another one and so on... until, all lessons cease, wisdom arises, freedom and liberation prevail.<br />
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Currently, transitioning.<br />
Yet again.<br />
Constantly.<br />
Until... Cessation. Freedom. Liberation.<br />
That's right. Liberation is where all this is leading.<br />
Freedom.<br />
Cessation.<br />
It Exits. I Know. I <i>just </i>Know.<br />
Thus, I Believe. Thus, I Do.<br />
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I once borrowed a Dr. Phil book from a friend. One of the sentences that stood out for me explained <i>how</i> time heals all wounds. The psychologist-author felt necessary, and rightly so, to point out that it's not just time that heals wounds, it's what happens in that time that does the healing.<br />
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A lot, a whole wide lot, is happening in my time. It started some two-and-a-half-years ago, when I started making conscious, often difficult and painful, choices for <i>true </i>long-term happiness. It was slow at first as the process was new and I still had a lot of resistance to it. It started picking up pace as I got more familiar with and skillful in embracing change, listening to my intuition, making those hard choices, and especially as I started reaping the benefits, which for me show up as Freedom. Plain old, Freedom. Freedom from my own notions and ideas and thoughts and conditioning and habits. Hidden way underneath in, what appears to be a deep dark bottom less well, of unconscious behavior and triggers. Slowly, constantly, much rapidly, entering the periphery of my conscious awareness. And thus, slowly, constantly, much rapidly, entering the zone of tough decision making. And thus, slowly, constantly, much rapidly, are being let go of, turning into freedom, ceasing from future existence.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh1JuCacIw6Zd3SAhQ8D9dBNmd8JZCqptH_9_spsrqUitQ1zeMETCyezp78MQssD2VIFPOt_QO8RQcGHXmN2xczhORgzElTynH-RfYfeJz5KZTracxONE1v8GYLWiqt4jfunwuGmg/s1600/gbp.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img alt="" border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh1JuCacIw6Zd3SAhQ8D9dBNmd8JZCqptH_9_spsrqUitQ1zeMETCyezp78MQssD2VIFPOt_QO8RQcGHXmN2xczhORgzElTynH-RfYfeJz5KZTracxONE1v8GYLWiqt4jfunwuGmg/s200/gbp.jpg" title="" width="200" /></a>The wheel is turning much faster now. Especially since March-end 2012, when I decided and was accepted to do <u style="font-style: italic;">long-term service</u> at the US Southeast Vipassana Center, aka Dhamma Patapa, in Jesup, Georgia. I filed whatever paperwork I needed to file at school. I shared this <i>road less traveled </i>decision with my family and friends. I finished whatever commitments I had in Atlanta. And by June 15, the three-ish-month transition from <i>that </i>to <i>this </i>ceased; I was here with a travellers backpack, a drawstring bag, six pairs of clothes, two pairs of shoes, a laptop, some stationary, a smart-phone that no longer has service but does have apps!, a yoga mat, and garmin to keep track of how much I run (if and when I run, time and energy permitting).<br />
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Before, I could never imagine myself living this life even for fictional kicks. Now, I cannot imagine doing anything else... for all this is teaching me, for all who I am becoming, for all that is still left to unfold.<br />
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I've been here five-months, and as per my commitment, I have another four-five to go. I <i>know</i> I will find myself in an even faster roll in no time. I <i>know</i> I will continue to cease, free, let go of notions, ideas, thoughts, conditioning, habits, behaviors, triggers. Notions, ideas, thoughts, conditioning, habits, behaviors, triggers that I am aware of. Notions, ideas, thoughts, conditioning, habits, behaviors, triggers that I am <i>not even</i> aware of.<br />
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I Know<br />
I <i>just</i> Know<br />
Thus, I Believe<br />
Thus, I Do<br />
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hey you, you be happy too!<br />
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Geetali Sharmahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160038878343445664noreply@blogger.com16tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100894.post-45406995360775697802012-05-20T14:30:00.001-04:002012-05-20T14:31:52.297-04:00Nothing is forever, man, absolutely nothing is forever. Yet we insist upon the eternity of things. Eternity only exists in the present, current, single, passing moment. Observe it. Feel it. Be it. Geetali Sharmahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160038878343445664noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100894.post-23516763901373586472012-02-23T23:56:00.002-05:002012-02-24T02:55:38.233-05:00Effortless Effort<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><br />
Think about it.<br />
What're your thoughts?<br />
<i>Hint: In my case, intuition spurred meaning and understanding. Effortlessly.</i><br />
</div>Geetali Sharmahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160038878343445664noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100894.post-15214159822182621032012-02-12T11:23:00.001-05:002012-02-12T11:25:15.251-05:00Bonds. Where do they come from?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px;">I'm wondering about 'rishtey' (translation: relationships). Where do they come from? How do they form? The kind of 'rishtey' that are below the surface. Not mama, chacha, beta type. The kind that are non-family related. The kind of 'rishtey' present between certain souls as some sort of a bond. A bond that defies time, distance, and hiatus of communication. The bonds whose presence is felt even in </span><span class="text_exposed_show" style="background-color: white; color: #333333; display: inline; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px;">the absence. The bonds whose absence isn't dreaded or mourned, but whose eternal, abstract, absolute presence is known, felt, and appreciated always. The bonds that in spite of the hiatus start from the present, are always in the present ...even in their summary of the past. Where to these bonds come from?</span></div>Geetali Sharmahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160038878343445664noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100894.post-49327013218741115062011-12-19T11:35:00.001-05:002011-12-19T11:40:48.282-05:00My Path<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><br />
<div class="p1">I feel like I have found my path. होश सँभालने के बाद / ever since I came to my senses, I have always 'argued' with people about <i>having</i> to <span class="s1"><u>experience</u></span><i>. </i>About <i>having</i> to <span class="s1"><u>feel</u></span>. Experience and Feel on my own, so that <span class="s1"><u>I</u></span> understand. Because <b>True Understanding</b> comes from within, not from tell-tales of other people. Other peoples stories are just that! Stories! They're only stories for me. Not an experience. Not a feeling. Not a lesson. </div><div class="p2"><br />
</div><div class="p1">I feel like I have found <u>my path</u>. My path of Experience. My path of Feeling. Moving from intellectually knowing how illogical it is to have expectations, especially of those and that which are out of our control - and in all honesty, E-V-E-R-Y-THING <i>is outside our control. Everything! </i>- to Experiencing it and Feeling it inside me. Moving from intellectually knowing how illogical it is to get attached to people, things, thoughts, and beliefs to Experiencing and Feeling the <b>impermanence</b> <i>inside of me</i> - because the one, absolute, ultimate, undeniable, true fact is that <i>all matter is impermanent. </i>We all know this intellectually, don't we? But we all forget it when it comes to practice. Don't we?<i> </i>Experiencing and Feeling it first within, and then taking this <span class="s1"><u>Understanding</u></span><i> </i>and applying it to what is outside of me automatically results in a slight smile. A smile that reads: Awareness and Equanimity. <a href="http://www.google.com/webhp?sourceid=chrome-instant&ie=UTF-8&ion=1#hl=en&cp=6&gs_id=1&xhr=t&q=anicca&pf=p&sclient=psy-ab&site=webhp&source=hp&pbx=1&oq=anicca&aq=0&aqi=g4&aql=&gs_sm=&gs_upl=&bav=on.2,or.r_gc.r_pw.,cf.osb&fp=460b64409d76bb7&biw=1280&bih=634&ion=1">Anicca. Anicca. Anicca. </a></div><div class="p2"><br />
</div><div class="p1">I <i>have</i> found My Path. My heart was <i>indeed</i> in the right place. Always.</div><div class="p1"><br />
</div><div class="p1"><a href="http://www.saavn.com/p/song/hindi/amar+prem/kuchh+to+log+kahenge/XRooexFeX0k"><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: HelveticaNeue, 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; text-align: -webkit-auto;">♫♪ </span>कुछ तो लोग कहेंगे... लोगों का काम है कहना... <span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: HelveticaNeue, 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; text-align: -webkit-auto;">♪</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: HelveticaNeue, 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; text-align: -webkit-auto;">♫</span></a></div></div>Geetali Sharmahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160038878343445664noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100894.post-64689188198461419432011-10-14T01:47:00.000-04:002011-10-14T01:47:12.865-04:00"Caste" System is Real<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">I kinda like the caste system (spur of this moment thought). But it's <strike>probably</strike> definitely a horrible thing to say in this day and age.<br />
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Hear me out though.<br />
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I think we as humans inherently practice it. But don't call it the 'caste system'. The formal layout simply doesn't exist in the western world and is taken too literally in the east. It's natural to follow ones heart and seek similar collateral. Being surrounded by what mirrors our own ideas, beliefs, thoughts, actions, and way of life, amongst numerable other things, is the 'caste' system. It's categorization. And you and I do it e-v-e-r-y-d-a-y because collective functioning is core to social human nature. And we can only collaborate collectively with those who are similar to us, who fall in the same category as us!<br />
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...and it changes as we change, as life progresses, as we move from one step to another. But I don't think it changes a lot, unless one was in the wrong category to begin with and takes conscious steps to move closer to her <i>real</i> self. Kinda like what I am doing with my <i>current life*</i> :)<br />
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*<i>current life != Geetali Sharma aka Kishu; April 22, 1987 (or 9 months prior) to present day.</i><br />
<i>current life = Designer, in training + Minimalist (</i><i>Beta) + spiritual-atheist-philosopher</i><br />
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Hah! How<b> about me</b> gravitates towards concise refinement! <3 Life!</div>Geetali Sharmahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160038878343445664noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100894.post-21922012305520906072011-10-13T22:40:00.001-04:002011-10-13T22:42:15.978-04:00'Expectations ≈ Goals'?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 13px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 20px;"></span><br />
<div style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; color: #555555; font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-right: 5px; margin-top: 10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-transform: none; vertical-align: baseline;"><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">A quick throw-up after reading <a href="http://www.theminimalists.com/beyond/#comment-6893">Moving Beyond Goals</a> on <a href="http://www.theminimalists.com/">The Minimalists</a>.</span></i><br />
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</span></div><div style="font-style: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">I make goals, but fail to meet them. I make goals, because I think I lack motivation. Which isn’t really true because I Have found my passion and, when engrossed, it brings happy tears to my eyes! Anything Design makes me glow.</span></div></div><div style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; color: #555555; font-size: 13px; font-style: inherit; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-right: 5px; margin-top: 10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-transform: none; vertical-align: baseline;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">Several years ago, I decided to let go of Expectations because I concluded from observation and analysis that they were a gateway to irrational unhappiness. Reading comments on the above blog, triggered a recollection of that idea. Letting go of Goals sounds very similar to me. Both, expectations and goals, are intellectually driven, not intuitionally. Intellect, although necessary to function, needs Intuition to create balance. In the want of expectations and goals – a fictional future – we forget to be in the present, the here & now, the true reality, and sooner or later complain of [irrational] unhappiness, of not knowing who we are, or who’s life we’re living.</span></div><div style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; color: #555555; font-size: 13px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-right: 5px; margin-top: 10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-transform: none; vertical-align: baseline;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: inherit;">Intellect comes with a certain amount of RAM and we are </span><u>meant</u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: inherit;"> to utilize the fossil fuel Intuition (heart, gut, voice from within, motivation, whatever you may wanna call it, it’s the part of you that </span><i>just knows</i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: inherit;">).</span></span></div><div style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; color: #555555; font-size: 13px; font-style: inherit; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-right: 5px; margin-top: 10px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-transform: none; vertical-align: baseline;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">I'm glad I read that blog, it has helped me further understand something truly important.</span></div></div>Geetali Sharmahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160038878343445664noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100894.post-2494350709941407272011-10-11T02:16:00.000-04:002011-10-11T02:16:10.455-04:00Change, I Heart<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">Things that bothered me in the past, fail to instill the same affect off late. Example: cold temperatures, rainy weather. I'm starting to embrace change. Happily. Enthusiastically. I enjoy change. This idea of embracing, celebrating, and often, seeking change seems to define who I am. I feel it needs deeper contemplation.<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: x-small; line-height: 16px;">♫ </span>I feel Happy inside! -The Beatles</div>Geetali Sharmahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160038878343445664noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100894.post-20552895158594561172011-10-09T23:32:00.000-04:002011-10-09T23:32:31.487-04:00Nothing but the Truth!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">For at least the past four months, I've been actively practicing the art of not lying. For a really long time, lying is how I dealt with my parents. Not because I was embarrassed of my lifestyle, but because I knew it was embarrassing for them. So I chose what Holy Bhagvad Gita sorta suggests and lied lies that prevented my parents from feeling hurt. <div><br />
</div><div>And then I got tired. Of living a double life. Of having to keep track of fiction. And of course, of dishonesty.</div><div><br />
</div><div>So, ever since moving back, I've chosen not to lie. It was a <i>huge</i> step because while living separately, I didn't have to speak to them or answer to them everyday or <i>ever</i>. Living in close premises is different as humans are social beings and it only makes sense to socialize with those who are available at close proximity. I was having my daily, trivial chitter-chatter with my parents. That would've been <i>a lot</i> of fiction to invent and track if I had chosen the fictional<i> </i>route. But, as I said before, I plain wasn't interested! I wanted to invest my creative sparks elsewhere. Thus, it has been all honesty since then, to the point of giving them the names of my guy friends who I chill with late-late at night. *sigh* it feels nice. </div><div><i><br />
</i></div><div><i>PS: This probably isn't a big deal for most people, but my Dad is Indian and expects me to be Indian, which means believing that everybody is out to get me and use me since I'm a poor little, vulnerable, weak girl and all, you know. </i></div><div><i><br />
</i></div><div>Anyways. The point of the blog is - Telling the <u>Truth</u> has become a <b>Habit</b>! Sometimes the thought of lying surfaces, especially if I want to not share something because of the<i> </i>embarrassment factor, but <i>Habit</i> doesn't let it happen! It's pretty awesome! So all in all, I guess, good habits are not as difficult to form as much we've somehow convinced ourselves to believe that they are. Huh.</div><div><br />
</div><div>Try something for yourself. It <i>only</i> takes perseverance. </div><div><br />
</div><div>Good night. </div><div>Shubh raatri. </div><div>Shabba khair.</div></div>Geetali Sharmahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160038878343445664noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100894.post-16700154615171078142011-10-08T23:06:00.000-04:002011-10-09T23:06:54.571-04:00I Dream Awesome Dreams<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">I haven't shared my dreams with anyone in a while because once upon a time one dude interpreted one so accurately, it scared the bejeezus outta me! Now, however, I do a pretty good job interpreting them myself and thus don't mind sharing the awesome symbolic visual imagery that comes forth from within my deep subconscious and takes me on roller coaster rides at nights.<br />
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I guess the difference between then and now is that I don't feel out of control anymore. During the summer of 2006, sharing a motel room up in the smoky mountains with four people I hadn't known too long, I felt at a loss when my deep fears and desires were exposed so easily and freely by one of them whome I had barely known for a few hours. Understood by him in an instant! Things that I chose to deliberately look away from during my waking life surfaced through another route, which, again, I had no desire to dig into. It was mere play to me, this dreaming business. Entertainment of sorts. Motion picture, emotions, even physical movements designed specifically for me that could be experienced by no one else. It was wow-ness and awe-ness. It was something trivial to talk about, to keep verbal chatter flow continuously during road-trips and lunch dates. No biggie, really. Until the smart ass shut me up for six-years. Wowza!<br />
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As of now, I write them and the meaning unfolds automatically, without attempt, as I recall my dreams. There was also a time period when I couldn't recall them for months, may be a couple of years. Of course, because I wanted to look away; look away so desperately that my memory had no choice but to oblige. Then I started missing them. Life started seeming more bland as my source of entertainment was now missing. But more importantly, I <i>didn't </i>want to look away anymore. I had come to the conclusion that problems don't disappear if you look away. It may seem like they have but they always remain in the back of one's mind, slowing and invisibly draining energy, deeply confusing the person, cracking the hole of emptiness faster and wider. I wanted to start mending the whole. I wanted to start charging my batteries. And once my desire for flying high was true and deep, I started using my brain instead of keeping it turned off. I started grabbing everything in my life I was unhappy with, one by one, and started tracing back steps to the original cause, I performed numerous root-cause-analyses. That was part one. Part two, probably, was grabbing hold of opportunities that came my way. I know I've talked about it before, but I can't not mention it again: Vipassana. Meditation. This awesome tool, started helping me recall my dreams accurately and instantly. Yes, it has taken more practice over the past few months and it's not a one-time-cure. But more than anything else I did before or since, meditation just solves my problems without me having to consciously think and act upon them. It's fuckin' magic!<br />
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Anyways, the moral of the blog is - Dreams rock! Our brains are geniuses! And I'm letting mine become the genius that it inherently is :D<br />
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Peace.</div>Geetali Sharmahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160038878343445664noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100894.post-48489554556110067862011-08-19T01:11:00.002-04:002011-08-19T01:11:20.884-04:00Hauntingly Beautiful<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">“Creativity is essentially a lonely art. An even lonelier struggle. To some a blessing. To others a curse. It is in reality, the ability to reach inside yourself and drag forth from your very soul an idea.” —Lou Dorfsman</div>Geetali Sharmahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160038878343445664noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7100894.post-85401025322451769802011-08-12T00:56:00.000-04:002011-08-12T00:56:57.752-04:00My mouth hurts. Wisdom is painful.<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"> <br />
<div class="p1">I think this mouth-hurting business is an yearly event in my date-book. Last time wisdom started throbbing was indeed around this time in 2010. I have learned to accept it as a part of life after, uh, how many years has it been? Three, may be four. I don't know. Definitely the number that starts emerging patterns. Five? And(!), takes you to a point of knowing, experientially, that (1) the pain is only momentary and (2) you can't fuckin' do nothing about it, so shut up and keep dancing! Like a period, you know. First few <i>years</i> are a part of learning. Being miserable. Crying, making faces, and yelling 'mommy'. Eventually you experientially learn that (1) the pain is only momentary and (2) you can't fuckin' do nothing about it, so shut up and keep dancing! Or like a heartbreak. I don't know about you folks, but love isn't forever. Neither does it happen only once (Shahrukh Khan is a liar!). The first time your heart shatters, it takes a long, long time to mend. <i>Took me 6 years. I was 16. </i>Each time after that is probably as painful and depressing as the first, probably more, but having been through it before helps you learn, experientially, that (1) the pain is only momentary and (2) you can't fuckin' do nothing about it, so keep dancing, baby!</div><div class="p2"><br />
</div><div class="p1">Going back to my wisdomy-ness. I <i>really</i> can't do anything about it. Knife is not an option. I don't trust people with knifes, especially if there goal is to use that knife upon me. People are humans, man. Humans are like you and me. We make mistakes. Hell, I'm reading this book that <i>encourages</i> making mistakes. Says that's the only way we learn. True. I agree with the book. And I chose to make the mistake of experiencing wisdom on a yearly basis.</div><div class="p2"><br />
</div><div class="p1">Book Recommendation - <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Being-Wrong-Adventures-Margin-Error/dp/0061176044">Being Wrong: Adventures in the Margin of Error</a> by <a href="https://twitter.com/#!/wrongologist">Kathryn Schulz</a>. </div><div class="p1">TEDTalk <a href="http://www.ted.com/talks/kathryn_schulz_on_being_wrong.html">here</a> - highly recommended!</div><div class="p2"><br />
</div><div class="p1"><i>Something must've happened when I was younger, unborn, or another human. This knife-fearing business must be coming from somewhere!</i></div><div class="p2"><br />
</div><div class="p1">In other news: I fear sleep. In the fear of getting too much sleep, I end up depriving myself of it, to eventually fall down and snooze for 10-12 hours. I see the problem. I see the pattern. However, I'm too fearful to figure out what to do about it. Getting into bed is a problem. Getting out out of bed is a problem. And it's taking a toll on my productivity, and physical and mental well being. "Help, I need somebody." -Beatles.</div></div>Geetali Sharmahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10160038878343445664noreply@blogger.com2